COLUMN: The battle over a proper season’s greeting

COLUMN: The battle over a proper season’s greeting

Some insist on “Merry Christmas” while others will avoid any use of the word “Christmas”

This is supposed to be the Most Wonderful Time Of The Year, but when it comes to seasonal greetings, it doesn’t always feel all that wonderful.

Each year, usually in November or early December, I see strongly worded statements on the choice of a greeting to use.

Some insist on “Merry Christmas” while others will take great measures to avoid any use of the word “Christmas.”

The schools within the Okanagan Skaha School District and other public school districts don’t hold Christmas concerts. Instead, these concerts are listed as “winter concerts.”

Few political figures will send out Christmas cards, preferring the more generic “Season’s Greetings” and the images depicting peaceful winter scenes rather than religious images, Santa Claus or decorated trees.

And among retailers, especially those who are part of national chains, the store windows and flyers often read “Happy Holidays.”

This is part of the festive season in Canada. It’s a happy time when messages of holiday cheer, peace and good will or seasonal best wishes abound.

But “Season’s Greetings” and similar messages aren’t good enough for some.

At times, I have received letters to the editor or other messages from people insisting “Merry Christmas” is the only appropriate greeting at this time of year. (This year, the first of those messages showed up around March, at the end of a rant about national politics.)

Some people have suggested boycotting businesses which do not display those words on their signs or in their flyers.

A couple of years ago, the American Christian Life United choir released the song, Say Merry Christmas. The lyrics begin with the words, “If you don’t see Merry Christmas in the window. No! You don’t go in that store. If you don’t see Merry Christmas in the window. Yes! You walk right by that door…”

This year, Rich DiMare, an American musician from Boston, Mass., has a new holiday song with the phrase, “We’re saying Merry Christmas again,” repeated throughout. (The phrase in this song is the same wording as U.S. president Donald Trump used in late November. Because of this, I wondered if the catch jingle was a holiday song or a political statement.)

Why should I as a customer care if a sign reads “Season’s Greetings” or “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Holidays” or any other message? It doesn’t change the merchandise available at the store shelves. It doesn’t affect the prices. And it doesn’t — or at least it shouldn’t — affect my own Christmas celebrations.

But the call for “Merry Christmas” continues, and each year I hear some who are upset if they see or hear any other festive greeting.

I don’t understand this outrage.

I can choose to observe Christmas as a religious celebration, a time for gift-giving, a special time to spend with family or a time of quiet reflection. (For me, all of these elements will come into play.)

Some around me might celebrate Hannukah, Kwanzaa, Solstice, Yule, Festivus or any number of other winter celebrations. Some have their big celebrations to mark the passing of the old year and to welcome in the new year. And some don’t want any celebrations in late December.

To quote the words of Ebenezer Scrooge, “Keep Christmas in your way, and let me keep it in mine.”

Here in Canada, I have this freedom. There’s no law on the books forbidding the celebration of the Dec. 25 holiday nor is there any law prohibiting the use of “Merry Christmas” as a greeting. Canada has never had such laws in place.

And so, in an attempt at inclusiveness, I offer my warmest Season’s Greetings to one and all. And if I know you’re celebrating Christmas, I’ll wish you a Merry Christmas instead.

John Arendt is the editor of the Summerland Review.

Get local stories you won't find anywhere else right to your inbox.
Sign up here

Just Posted

This Dec. 2, 2020, file photo provided by Johnson & Johnson shows vials of the COVID-19 vaccine in the United States. (Johnson & Johnson via AP)
Interior Health notes 80 new COVID-19 cases over the weekend

108 people in the region have died from the virus

The goal of the group is to help women owned businesses recover from the pandemic and to assist women to become angel investors and women owned or co-owned businesses to better access capital.
Okanagan women’s investor fund launched to aid women-owned businesses

Twenty-five women have formed a new Okanagan angel investment fund

It's tick season in South Okanagan.
Tick season has started in South Okanagan

A Penticton adventure company collected 200 ticks last year to be studied for Lyme Disease

Send your letter to the editor via email to Please included your first and last name, address, and phone number.
LETTER: Summerland solar site should be sold and developed

Community has had many proposals for site over past years

Send your letter to the editor via email to Please included your first and last name, address, and phone number.
LETTER: Summerland housing development supported

Five-storey building would be great legacy for Summerland

Five Kelowna writers are featured in an anthology that launched in time for International Women's Day. (Twila Amato - Black Press Media)
International Women’s Day: Book exploring fears features Kelowna writers

The book has launched in time for International Women’s Day

Susan Kootnekoff is the founder of Inspire Law, an Okanagan based-law practice, and provides Kelowna Capital News with weekly stories from the world of local, national and international law. (Contributed)
Kootnekoff: Royal Dismissal

Susan Kootnekoff is the founder of Inspire Law, her diverse legal career spans over 20 years

Cottonwoods Care Home in Kelowna. (Google Maps)
New COVID-19 outbreak at Kelowna care home includes fully vaccinated seniors: Henry

Two staff and 10 residents tested positive at Cottonwoods Care Centre

Excerpts from a conversation between Bria Fisher and the fake truLOCAL job. Fisher had signed a job agreement and was prepared to start work for what she thought was truLOCAL before she learned it was a scam. (Contributed)
B.C. woman warning others after losing $3,000 in job scam

Bria Fisher was hired by what she thought was a Canadian company, only to be out thousands

Provincial health officer Dr. Bonnie Henry and Health Minister Adrian Dix provide a regular update on the COVID-19 situation, B.C. legislature, March 2, 2020. (B.C. government)
B.C.’s COVID-19 cases: 545 Saturday, 532 Sunday, 385 Monday

Focus on Prince Rupert, Lower Mainland large workplaces

(File photo)
RCMP seek witnesses after 2 different reports of man chasing children in Kelowna

Both incidents occured around Dougall Road in Rutland

Rising accident rates and payout costs have contributed to billion-dollar deficits at ICBC. (Comox Valley Record)
B.C. appealing decision keeping ICBC injury cases in court

David Eby vows to ‘clip wings’ of personal injury lawyers

Noah Vaten(left) having a cigarette out front of the Kelowna Law Courts on a brief break during his manslaughter trial on March 8, 2021. (Michael Rodriguez - Capital News)
Accused Kelowna killer ‘blacked out’ on cocaine, kicked cop shop window looking for help

Video of Noah Vaten’s interrogation shown during manslaughter trial details night of Canada Day killing in the accused’s own words

Most Read